Finding out that your child requires surgery, no matter how minor is the worst nightmare for a lot of parents. Regardless of the nature of the procedure, you will worry about what could go wrong. Even if you know that the chances of a mistake are non-existent, there are still those unsure thoughts in the back of your mind. 

It’s not enjoyable for you, nor is it enjoyable for your child. After all, they are the ones who need the support the most, and as a parent, you are the one who can provide this support. Here are the ways you can help your child feel comfortable before, during, and after a procedure. 

Before

Depending on how old your child is, they may not understand what needs to happen, and while doctors and nurses can offer an explanation, it is you that they will turn to for help. 

You can explain to them in simple terms what is going to happen and why it is good. Kids are smarter than many give them credit for, and with the correct, carefully chosen words, you can help them understand what is happening and why it is happening. 

During this time, you can also encourage them and be with them, reminding them that the doctors are doing this for the best reasons and that it would not happen were it not essential. This can help ease any fears and help them better accept the procedure. 

During

There is not much you can do during the procedure as you won’t be allowed in the operating room. However, there are a few things you can do in the minutes before that will ensure your child feels comfortable.

Ask the doctor which anaesthesia, such as xylocaine gel, they are going to use to ease any discomfort and make any last-minute requests, such as their favourite stuffed animal being present if this is possible. 

As for you, your child will look for you before they go in, and likely still be looking for you before they go under, so make sure you are the last person they see to ease any fears. 

After

After the success of the operation, your child will be delicate and likely in a lot of pain. It will break your heart to see this, but you can provide plenty of love, support, hugs, and cuddles to keep their spirits up.

Let them watch their favourite TV shows and play their favourite games, allow lots of play to help take their mind off the discomfort. This helps to relieve tension and can calm them down. In time, they’ll feel like their usual self. 

If there are any additional complications, you should seek professional support to analyze the next steps. 

Being There

While there’s not much you can do during the surgery, there is plenty that you can do both before and after. You hope that you never need to be in a situation where your bundle of joy requires an operation, but if they are, you at least know how you can help them at every stage.